New York

Prioritise Midtown Manhattan, Downtown & Financial District, Statue of Liberty & Ellis Island, Central Park & the Upper Sides and Greenwich Village & SoHo. What you can skip without regret: the restaurants with photo menus and touts on the main square, any hop-on bus if the centre is walkable, and paid "panoramic" viewpoints when a free one gives the same picture. You also have coastline within reach of New York, so keep one morning free for a beach or a coastal walk.

Stay inside or immediately beside the historic centre of New York: you walk to the main sights, restaurants stay open late nearby, and you avoid paying for taxis twice a day. Pick the edge of the old town if you want quiet at night, and check the room faces a courtyard rather than a bar street.

Use the scheduled airport bus or regional train for the cheapest transfer into New York, an official taxi from the marked rank when you arrive late or with luggage, and ignore anyone offering a private transfer inside the terminal. In United States (New York State — the five boroughs and Long Island), the subway runs 24 hours and OMNY caps your fare after twelve rides in a week; check the uptown/downtown entrance before you tap, use crosstown buses where the lines do not go, take the AirTrain from JFK or Newark, and the LIRR from Penn or Grand Central for the beaches and the Hamptons

5 full days is the honest answer for New York: one for the centre on foot, one for its museums and food, and one for a trip into New York. Two days works if you only want the highlights; a fourth day is worth it if you want a slow morning and a longer excursion.

Budget $230–360 per person per day mid-range: $180–260 room, $80 food, $50–120 for one observatory, museum or show. Accommodation moves the total most: shoulder season in New York can be half the July price for the same room. Payment runs on the US dollar (contactless cards and phones work everywhere, including the subway via OMNY; carry a few dollars for tips and the handful of cash-only institutions such as Peter Luger).

Day 1 — the historic core of New York on foot, clockwise from the main square, with lunch where you end up rather than walking back. Day 2 — the single biggest sight first thing, then the market and the residential streets around it, and a viewpoint at sunset. Day 3 — one excursion into New York booked in advance, back for a late dinner. Group everything by walking distance and never cross New York twice in a day.

Anything with timed entry or a small group sells out first: the flagship monument or museum of New York, guided tours with fewer than fifteen places, boat and wine experiences in summer, and dinner at well-reviewed restaurants on Friday and Saturday. Book those two to four weeks ahead in high season; everything else can wait until you arrive.

The classics are the same everywhere: unmetered taxis quoting a flat fare, "free" bracelets or flowers, distraction pickpocketing on crowded transport and at photo spots, card machines handed over pre-set to a higher amount or to your home currency, and restaurants without printed prices. Check the meter, always pay in local currency, and keep your bag in front of you in queues.

In United States (New York State — the five boroughs and Long Island), 18–20% in restaurants, $1–2 a drink at the bar, 15–20% for taxis, $2 a bag for porters, $5 a day housekeeping. Breakfast from 07:00 and brunch until 15:00 at weekends, lunch 12:00–15:00, dinner 18:00–22:30 with the best tables released 28–30 days ahead on Resy and OpenTable. Cover shoulders and knees inside churches, greet staff before ordering, keep your voice down in residential streets at night, and expect shops in smaller towns around New York to close in the early afternoon.

Install OMNY or just a contactless card for the subway, Citymapper for transfers, Resy and OpenTable for tables, TodayTix and TKTS for Broadway, NYC Ferry for the harbour. Download an offline map of New York before you land, and add your transport card or pass to your phone wallet if the local operator supports it.

Walk two or three streets off the main square or monument in New York and look for a short handwritten menu, a full room of local voices, and prices displayed at the door. A daily menu chalked up at lunchtime is the strongest signal; a laminated menu in five languages with a host outside is the strongest warning.

Eat what New York grows and lands: the signature rice, stew or grill of the region, whatever the market is selling that week, and the local wine or vermouth by the glass. The most honest versions are in the family-run place near the market of New York, at lunch, when the daily menu is on.

Breakfast from 07:00 and brunch until 15:00 at weekends, lunch 12:00–15:00, dinner 18:00–22:30 with the best tables released 28–30 days ahead on Resy and OpenTable. Book dinner for anything popular, ask for the bill (it won't arrive unprompted), and split payment is usually fine by card. 18–20% in restaurants, $1–2 a drink at the bar, 15–20% for taxis, $2 a bag for porters, $5 a day housekeeping.

Do a single loop of the historic centre of New York, stop at its one defining sight, then eat where locals eat near the market. That gives you the character of the place in three or four hours without a ticket queue eating the whole visit.

Free: the highest point of the old town, the bell tower terrace when it's open, and the bridge or promenade that looks back at New York's skyline. Paid: a rooftop bar or tower ticket — worth it only if you arrive forty minutes before sunset to get the rail. On the coast nearby, a west-facing cove beats any rooftop.

the subway runs 24 hours and OMNY caps your fare after twelve rides in a week; check the uptown/downtown entrance before you tap, use crosstown buses where the lines do not go, take the AirTrain from JFK or Newark, and the LIRR from Penn or Grand Central for the beaches and the Hamptons If your 5-day plan is mostly on foot in New York with one excursion, buy singles or a multi-journey card and skip the tourist pass; if you're crossing the city several times a day or using it with museum entry included, a 48 h pass pays for itself.

New York is safe by European standards; the real risks are opportunistic. Avoid empty industrial or station peripheries after midnight, unlit parks, and packed nightlife streets where phones disappear. Walk lit main streets, use a licensed taxi or ride-hailing app late at night, and share your route if you're travelling solo.

Buy something made nearby: a print from the Met or MoMA store, Zabar's coffee and Russ & Daughters preserves, a Strand tote and a second-hand book, and a Yankees or Knicks cap bought at the ground rather than in Times Square. The weekly market in New York and a workshop with the maker on site beat any airport shop, and you're supporting the local trade rather than an importer.

Keep two indoor blocks in reserve: the main museum or cathedral of New York, a market hall with food stalls, a long lunch, or a thermal bath or wine cellar in New York. In extreme heat, invert the day — sights before 11:00, indoors from 14:00 to 18:00, and the evening back outside.

Locals go where there's no ticket desk: the residential lanes just outside the walls of New York early in the morning, the neighbourhood bar with four tables and one dish, the cemetery or convent garden that nobody photographs, and the hill road out of town at dusk. Ask the person serving you coffee where they eat on Sunday — in New York that question opens more doors than any list.